Esther: Wise Woman of Faith

Esther’s story is a powerful glimpse of how God used a poor Jewish teenager turned queen to save the Jewish nation. From her life we can learn many things-to whom should we listen, who should we serve and who is controlling us. 

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ESTHER

God, thank You so much for the story of Esther.

Once upon a time, there was a king Xerxes who governed 127 provinces but could not control his own wife Vasthi.

READ ESTHER 1:3: In the third year of his reign, King Xerxes hosted a lavish celebration that lasted 180 days.

Feast for 6 months feast to show off strength and glory of Persia.

End of the 180 day celebration, a 7 day feast to celebrate the end of the 180 day celebration!

In a drunken state, show off his queen and her beauty to the entire palace. Well, Queen Vashti, who refused to be flaunted as an object of sexual desire in a room filled with intoxicated men refused to come. Filled with anger, King Xerxes consulted his royal advisors told him that he should banish her and condemn her to a life of misery.

Fast forward four years and King Xerxes returns from the battlefield. Misses his queen.

Across the four corners of the Persian Empire, beautiful young women, virgins, were brought to the palace, they got the best spa treatments; cosmetics; ointments; clothing; jewelry and perfumes to prepare them for one night with the king.

Describe harem in turkey.

☻SLIDE 3: [ E ]Enter Esther. Brought in was a young Jewish orphan by the name of Esther.

☻SLIDE 4: [ M ] Enter Mordecai: She was adopted by her cousin, Mordecai, who was actually a political official in the king’s palace. He raised her as his own.

She grew up. One day Mordecai dropped her off at the front door of the Harem.

☻SLIDE 5: [ E ] Back to Esther

Hegai gave her the best cosmetics, clothes. Went to Victoria’s Secret. Negligee

I went to Victoria’s Secret once. Well, it was Fredericks of Hollywood:

“Not much to it, is there?”

On the night that it was Esther’s chance for her one night with the king, she was given all of the clothing and the jewelry and the cosmetics in the royal treasury.

Her one night with the king must have been pretty good!

The king placed the crown on her head and made her his queen.

Did I mention that Esther was a Jew? Mordecai told her to keep quiet about her heritage.

God’s providence: A Jewish orphan living in exile now serves as the queen of an empire that has subjugated her people.

☻SLIDE 6: [X,M E ] Meanwhile, Mordecai was serving in his post in the palace and overheard a threat against the king’s life and relayed that to his cousin, Esther, who relayed it to the king.

The two traitors were then hung on the gallows, which, in that culture, were probably not nooses by which they hung from the neck but poles upon which they were impaled. And Mordecai’s good works were recorded in the chronicles of the king, but he was not promoted or acknowledge.

☻SLIDE 7: [ H ] enter Haman. Haman was big man on campus. Proper for those of lesser rank bow in the presence of the greater.

☻SLIDE 8: [M, H ] Mordecai refused to bow down to an enemy of his people.

When Haman heard of that, he was filled with anger and fury and sought vengeance. But taking the life of one man was not enough. Haman required the extermination of an entire people.

☻SLIDE 9: [ XH ] So Haman convinced the king that the Jewish people were parasites in the empire and needed to be eliminated. The king gave his approval.

☻SLIDE 10: [ M ] READ ESTHER 4:1-3: When Mordecai learned of all that had been done, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the city, wailing loudly and bitterly.

3 In every province to which the edict and order of the king came, there was great mourning among the Jews, with fasting, weeping and wailing. Many lay in sackcloth and ashes.

☻SLIDE 11: [ ME ] When Esther caught word of it, she sent clothing for him but he refused to wear it. He sent word back to his cousin that their people were to be eliminated within the year and he begged his cousin to go petition the king for deliverance.

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Custom could’ enter king’s presence without being summoned. Esther reminded Mordecai of that if he were not to raise the golden scepter to her, she would die. And she also told Mordecai that the king had not summoned her for 30 days, signaling that perhaps he was displeased with her or had become bored with her.

READ ESTHER 4:12-15.

Mordecai sent back word and said, “Esther, perhaps you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this.”

Esther then said, ‘Then gather the Jewish people and have them pray and fast for three days,’ and for three days all the Jewish people across the empire prayed and fasted for Esther said, ‘I will go to the king, though it is against the law, and if I perish, I perish.’

☻SLIDE 12: [ XE ] Three days later, Esther approaches the throne of the king. He raises his golden scepter to her and says, ‘Whatever you want, even up to half the kingdom.’

And Esther replied simply, I want to have dinner with you—and bring Haman.

☻SLIDE 13: [ MH ] Haman left that dinner thrilled. He had experienced an intimate moment with the king and the queen, but on the way out of the place, he ran into Mordecai, who once again refused to bow or honor or even acknowledge his presence.

Haman angry–went home and he talked to his family and his friends about the insult and they told him to construct a gallows upon which he could hang him.

So Haman purposed in his heart the next day to go talk to the king to ask for Mordecai’s life.

☻SLIDE 14: [ X ]  the king can’t sleep and he calls for the chronicles to be brought to him so he can read the diaries of his reign.

The scroll that recorded Mordecai’s loyalty years before and the king figured it was high time to reward Mordecai for his service to the crown.

☻SLIDE 15: [ XH ] So the next day, Haman lurks around in the outer courts of the palace hoping he can ask for Mordecai’s life,

And the king brings him in and says, ‘Haman, what should I do to a man that I want to honor publicly for their services?’

And Haman, thinking that the king is talking about him, says, ‘Bring a royal robe that you have worn and set a crown on his head and put him on one of your horses and parade him around the city and herald for all to hear ‘Thus shall be done to the man whom the king delights to honor.’ And the king said, ‘That sounds like a good idea. You go do thus for Mordecai the Jew.’

Haman humiliated and he leads Mordecai around the city.

But he has one thing to look forward to; he has dinner with the king and queen that night.

☻SLIDE 16: [ EXH] Once again the king says, ‘Esther, whatever you would like to have, be it up to half the kingdom, it is yours.’

Esther simply said, ‘If I have found favor in your sight, “I am under a death threat and all of my people are to be destroyed, killed and annihilated.’

The king has no idea what she is talking about and demands to know who is responsible.

Esther says, ‘The wicked Haman.’

The king gets up from the table and storms from the room and Haman hurls himself at Esther’s feet. groveling at the feet of a Jewish woman, asking, begging and pleading for his life.

When the king comes back in and sees Haman at Esther’s feet, he believes that he has tried to molest the queen and demands his immediate death.

☻SLIDE 17: [ H ] here is a picture of Haman ruined. Haman hangs on the very gallows that were instructed for Mordecai’s death.

Mordecai is given the estate of Haman and the authority and position of Haman.

☻SLIDE 18: [ EM, and jewish people]

And Esther and Mordecai are saved but the king forgets that this doesn’t save the entire Jewish people so Esther once again has to go to the king, I still need help for my people,’ because the edict that he had issued for their death could not be revoked.

And he says to Mordecai, You have the authority to issue a new edict.’ And the edict was issued that allowed the Jewish people to defend themselves on the day that they were to be exterminated. And defend themselves, they did and the Jewish people were saved.

Purim: To this day, the Jewish people remember an orphan girl, an exile, who became queen, who dared to challenge the king, who dared to defy a decree, who dared to defend her people. Esther became a legend in her own time.

Reading a sermon on this by Margaret Salyers

She drew off several principles from Esther’s experience that were so good that I want to share them with you.

The Bible is filled with stories about people who invited God into their story and found themselves playing significant roles in the story that God Himself was writing.

If we think about the stories that shape us and mold us, the stories that we long to hear again and again, we think about stories like

The awkward nerd girl in the high school who one day discovers she is a princess;

The lonely boy on a desert planet who realizes he is the most powerful Jedi in the galaxy;

The little hobbit who is given the ring of power to save all of middle earth.

We hear these stories and think back to our childhood when we knew that there was more to us than met the eye. And we dared to believe that we were really Jedi’s and athletes and princesses in disguise waiting to be discovered.

Those stories resonate with us because it’s the way that God created us.

☻SLIDE 19: READ JOHN 1:12: To all who believed and accepted Him, to them He gave power to become the children of God.

He has adopted us into his family. When we put our faith, He brings us into his family, and into the story that He is writing in history and we become part of his story.

I know a lot of us are thinking that we don’t live in those fiction stories.

I mean Luke Skywalker had a great soundtrack and my only soundtrack is screaming kids.

Here’s what I want to encourage you. We all have the opportunity to be a hero in the place where God has put us. We all have the opportunity to step into the story that He is writing.

Read the story of Esther and draw out three questions.

☻SLIDE 20: WHO ARE WE LISTENING TO?

King Xerxes listened to advisors who told him to put away his queen. It was a decision he regretted greatly later.

Haman listened to all the wrong people. It’s interesting to me, if we look at Esther 3, verse 3, it says this: 3Then the king’s servants who were at the king’s gate said to Mordecai, “Why are you transgressing the king’s command?”

4Now it was when they had spoken daily to him and he would not listen to them, that they told Haman…

Haman didn’t even realize that Mordecai was not bowing down to him. He listened to tattle-tales who came and stirred up his ego and his arrogance, and in verse 5, it says then he was filled with fury. He let servants of the court dictate his heart.

When he went to his family and friends they stroked his ego and encouraged him to seek revenge instead of encouraging him to become a man of character.

Listening to Bruce Thompson; go to garage and met Mrs. Cockrell with gun.

Mark Russ tied to tree. Banished to bed for one week.

Compare and contrast this with Esther. When Mordecai said, ‘Don’t reveal your ethnicity,’ she listened.

When she was brought into the harem, she listened to Hegai and trusted that he was leading her in the right way.

When Mordecai came to her and asked her to risk her life, asked her to do the hardest thing imaginable, she listened.

Who are we listening to? Are we listening to people who will tell us what we want to hear in the moment but will lead to our destruction and downfall in the future?

Or are we listening to people who give us correction and advice and instruction that in the moment is very difficult to hear but in the end will lead to maturity and success.

Steve Dowdle: “I need to rebuke you.”

“Listen to the people who listen to God”

☻SLIDE 21: Share acknowledgement in GOT GUTS GET GLORY— [pix of BOOK COVER]

We need friends in our lives who have the ability to confront what’s wrong and also have the ability to confront what’s right and needs to be drawn out of us even more. If we don’t have those relationships, I encourage you to get involved in small groups, get involved in a ministry, go on a missions trip, find a way to connect with the people around you.

☻SLIDE 22: WHO ARE WE SERVING?

When you are given authority, how do you use that?

Haman obviously used it to serve himself. When he was given the ring of authority of the king, he used it to write a decree to exterminate an entire people group.

Think of what he could have done with that power, the good he could have done with that power. He used his influence to serve himself

On the other hand, Mordecai and Esther were serving a much larger cause.

Esther risked her life to go before a king. She leveraged her position, her influence, her authority for the sake of other people.

At the very end of Esther, the very last verse of Esther talks about how Mordecai used his influence to serve his people.

Where has God placed you? Think about the different hats that you wear, the different spheres of influence that you have as a parent, as a friend, as a boss, as a leader, as a student. Thing about the hat your wear and the influence you have, how are you using it to serve other people? Or are you just using it to serve yourself?

☻SLIDE 23: who’s controlling our lives?

In Esther we see between something we call God’s sovereignty and man’s free will, showing how those two things work together.

Providence is this idea that God works within his created world to bring about his purposes. God’s sovereignty is this theological word that gets to this idea that God is at work even within the choices we make to orchestrate them to bring about his ultimate and final purposes.

We say that we believe that God is in control but when we look at the way we actually live our lives, do we live in such a way that communicates that we believe that? Who is in control?

When we look at this story, we realize that Mordecai and Esther both realize that God is in control.

Here is a really interesting thing. Esther is one of only two books in the Bible that doesn’t mention God anywhere.

But when we think about this story, the people of God are on the brink of extermination. There is an edict from the king to destroy the Jews that cannot be revoked.

If the Jews were exterminated at this point, God’s whole plan for salvation and redemption would have been thwarted.

Without the Jewish people, the Messiah would not have been able to come as promised.

If there was ever a time in history when God needed to make Himself known in a very unmistakable and undeniable way, it seems like it would be here.

Yet, in the story of Esther, He remains hidden and silent. But it doesn’t mean He wasn’t working. It doesn’t mean He is not sovereign.

Mordecai recognizes the sovereignty of God. He actually says to Esther, in Esther 4:13, “If you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish.”

Mordecai says to Esther, ‘God is still in control, God will still deliver us, the choice you must make is whether or not you want to participate.

It is really a matter of obedience. And we see Esther embracing the sovereignty of God when she calls for fasting and prayer, realizing that she can’t do this on her own. And when she says that if she perishes, she perishes. She recognizes that her role in this is not to try to play the hero or to be a legend or to do something great, it is simply to be obedient. She embraces the sovereignty of God.

Throughout the Book of Esther, we see a cycle that we see of feasts and fasting.

Feasts to celebrate the king; feasts to celebrate Esther; fasts to pray for the people of God; feasts to honor the king and to ask for lives of people and feasts to celebrate the sovereignty of God.

For many of us, we find ourselves, in periods of feasting and some of us in periods of fasting when things don’t seem like they are going anywhere for us.

But if we trust that God is in control, it gives us confidence in whatever season we happen to be in. It gives us patience to know God’s timing.

☻SLIDE 24: Who are we listening to?

Who are we serving?

Who is controlling our lives?

I don’t think that the real hero in this story is not Esther or Mordecai. The only hero is God Himself. The story is God Himself and He simply invites us to participate, to play a role. All we must do is be obedient.

In our day, stories are still made at the foot of the cross as we come before the King of kings and give our lives over to Him, because 2,000 years ago, we saw something very similar to what happened in the Book of Esther

When God hung suspended on a cross and went silent and his body was hidden in a tomb, and now when all seemed lost, the moment when God should have been more at work and more visible in undeniable and unmistakable ways than ever before, He allowed Himself to disappear into a tomb. Yet He was in that moment when He was hidden and seemingly silent that He did the greatest work in history.

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