Top 10 Ways to Beat the Christmas Blues

Top 10 Ways to Beat the Christmas Blues

What do you do when you are feeling blue? You don’t need to feel helpless! Many of us experience depression at a significant holiday like Christmas. Especially this year….Sometimes it’s the loss of a loved one, a job or your health. Sometimes it’s isolation, fear and depression. Here are a few practical steps you can take to beat the doldrums.

1. Socialize and Think Positively!
When a person is feeling blue or depressed, often the last thing they want to do is be around others or socialize. The fact is, however, when we are feeling blue or down, if we choose to isolate ourselves and hold up in our room or home, we will tend to focus on the same mental tapes that are causing us to feel down in the first place! If you will force yourself to call a friend and meet for coffee, a movie, a walk, a talk – anything to get out and change your atmosphere, the chances are good that will have a good effect on changing your mood for the better. For all but those who have a severe depression problem re-quiring a doctor’s help, try and remember, we are what we think. Our thoughts can propel us into ecstasy or into the depths of the blues. And most of us have control over our thoughts. It takes being conscious of them, and it takes practice. Remember: We are always at choice as to thought, actions, etc.

2. Do Something Just for Yourself!
Be totally selfish here. Think of something you want to do for yourself… a short trip, a manicure, a haircut, buying yourself the coat or scarf you have been wanting. It does not have to be extravagant or costly. The point is you are being good to yourself, and that will sink in, and a part of yourself will say, “Gee, I deserve this, and things aren’t so bad after all.” This is not going to necessarily get to the root of what caused you to feel down or blue, but it will make you feel better long enough that maybe you can put the cause in a different perspective, or simply not take it as seriously.

3. Give Something to Another Person
One of the best ways we can get beyond our own physical and emotional self is to find something bigger than our own familiar problems upon which to concentrate! Think about your friends, relatives, the poor people in your church, or the local charities. Pick a person or cause that appeals to you and decide to give to that person or that cause.  It can be your time or money, a toy, or whatever. Giving to others makes most people feel good in their heart. Feeling good in our heart can have a great impact on how we feel in our mind and body. It is the thought and the symbolism. The gift may be small, but the thought is
all.  You will feel better!

4. Rent or Go See a Happy/Funny Movie
Laughter has long been a quick and effective panacea for ills of all kinds. Medical studies show that it creates endorphins (body hormones that act as natural pain killers as well as mood elevators) as well as red blood cells and t-cells (the good cells which make up a part of the body’s auto-immune system and help us fight disease). When we laugh we also force our mind (although there is not any real struggle) to change modes and to be up and to feel up, not down or blue or depressed. We substitute our own thoughts and feelings for those of the people on the movie or television screen. Watching an hour long comedy where we laugh and take our mind off our daily problems can last for hours or days as far as re-ducing chronic pain, a blue mood feeling, etc. It is cheap, easy, and if we allow it to be it is fun!

5. Volunteer Your Time
One of the best ways we can help pull ourselves out of feeling sorry for ourselves, or feeling blue, or concentrating on our own aches and pains, is by helping other people who have problems of their own … often much more severe. Jobless families need a “leg up” right now. World Vision, Samaritan’s purse and a host of other organizations need your help. Giving time to others is a very good way to get outside of our own situation.  Every city has volunteer bureaus and other places that need help, even if it is for an hour a day or a week! Giving to others will come back to us many times over in positive ways if we allow ourselves to try it. Of course, minister safely and observe guidelines for contact with others.

6. Get Out of the Past and Into The Present!
Most bad moods and mental attitudes are a result of what has happened to us in the past. This can be the recent past, or long ago. It is vital to your body and energy and life as a whole that you stay in the present with your thought and feelings. The past is over! Hanging onto old hurts, pains, anger, etc. will do you much harm emotionally and physically over time. We can choose to focus on creating a positive and healthy present for ourselves, or dwell in the past, creating anxiety, depressed moods, anger, guilt, etc. Do you want to live your life in the present or live it based on the past onto which you are still hanging? Let old hurts and pains and anger go! Doing so will free up all kinds of positive energy and your body and mind will have a chance to be much healthier as a result.

7. Walk to Cheer Up
Walking is prescribed by many doctors to help depression.  Maybe your finances are what have you down in the dumps. If that is the case, drive to the closest mall and walk and just look in the windows. Buy an orange freeze or soda, sit on a bench and watch the people and the children. Realize that every person you see has their own problems, and has days when they are blue or down. Some may feel much worse, and even be clinically depressed. Taking action fights the blues and the funk one feels by sitting or lying down at home brooding indulging in self-blame or pity. Remember misery loves company? Well, at a mall you can be assured you have hundreds if not thousand of men and women who have felt or are feeling just as bad or worse than you at the very time you are there! You are not alone. Life will go one … things can get better. You must make the choice to help make them better.

8. Call or Skype Someone You Like Who Is a Positive Person and Chat
The idea here is to get out of yourself, and have some interaction, and hear about someone else’s life and take your mind off your own stuff for a while. It’s okay to let them know you are feeling a bit low or down, and if they ask, you can briefly tell them what is going
on. But, ask them about their life and job and family, etc. Get involved with someone else, and your mind will take a turn as well.  Let them talk about their life and current situation. The more you listen to them and talk about things other than your own current situation, the better the chances are your mood will lift and you’ll feel better after connecting in times of isolation.

9. Meditate or Listen To Relaxation or Ministry Resources
Meditation can be a very good way to change your mood. It works whether you are depressed/down, or anxious/hyper. We suggest taking a course or getting good quality tapes which teach meditation and prayer. It is amazing what it can do to quiet down the mind and release the stress caused by both anxiety and depressed feelings. Abide and Pray are both relaxation apps as well as self-affirmation. Louise Hay and Wayne Dyer are two of the most well known authors of books and tapes on health issues, specializing in “positive thinking” and how they affect our physical and emotional health. They can be found in most bookstores, or on the Internet. The investment in these tapes is quite small compared to the benefits they can give the user.

10. Be Creative!
Creating things alters our mood. It shifts us from the right side of our brain to the left side, etc. Creating can be through cooking foods, painting (walls or on canvas or paper) making something using needle and thread, yarn, or Legos! It is also “creating” to play music if you are musical. Play what you wish as loud or as soft as you wish.  Make up a song. Music (hearing it or playing it) has long been used by people of all cultures to create or alter a mood. Whatever type of music makes you feel good… play it or create it. It will change your mood for the better if you allow it to and if you concentrate on the music and creating and forget how you have been “feeling.”

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